"Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing." 1Cor.13:1-2
First let me say that love is an action word, not a feeling or emotion. Love is defined by what we do and by the motivation by which we do things. Maybe it is the quality, and not the quantity, of our actions that define us. In God's economy, love is more important than results.
Second, love involves words that we speak. Verse one talks about things that we say. Men know that romantic love is expressed by words that we say. Real love can be measures not by the number of words that we speak but by the spirit by which words are spoken.
Third, love is stronger than faith or miracles. The greatest of these is love according to verse 13. Real love will get you through the hard times of life.
Fourth, love is shown through giving. If you love, you will give. What will you give? You give what you have; your time, your talent, and your money.
Finally, real love and romantic love are two very different things. Romantic love is a mystery, real love is obvious.
"Show me your faith without your works, and I will show you my faith by my works." James 2:18
The same could be said about real love. Show me your love without action, and I will show you my love by my actions. Real love is more than a feeling.