Do as I say, not as I do. This seems to be the attitude shown by some in leadership positions around us. It's like challenging people to fast while your belly is full. It is mental gymnastics done by those who think that they are above the law.
One thing that I see in some churches is the disconnect between church attendance from our pastors and regular church folks. Someone who never misses a service is more faithful to their church than someone who is out preaching but absent from his home assembly. There were times when I was more faithful to my church than my pastor was, even though he was in church more than I was. He was in church somewhere, but not here.
There are people who can live anywhere, and the rest of us who must live somewhere. There are people who go to church somewhere, and there are others who can go to church anywhere.
My conclusion is simply that if we are more faithful to church that you, at least don't hammer on us to be more faithful. Appreciate those who stay by the stuff.
One thing that some pastors will never earn is a gold star for perfect attendance.